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Communication 26288
Liberation 118717:
three things:

1) being overweight/fat doesn't have to prevent you from having great sex. i'm fat, my fiance is fat, and we have awesome sex. if you're really having troubles, maybe just try some ab exercises, and stretches for your hips.

2) a lot of women can't come from fucking alone, so you could hold out and fuck for an hour and it still probably wouldn't get the girl off.

3) Hanne Blank wrote a book about sex specifically for fat people. i haven't read it, so i can't speak to it's quality, but her other books are well researched and awesome, so it's probably a good resource.
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:.Posted on 5/22/2013 at 1:07 PM
Communication 26287
Liberation 118694

I know that feel, bro. I'm 20 and want desperately to learn violin and how to dance. Some places do have adult beginner's classes though. They do exist. Don't give up on it yet.
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:.Posted on 5/21/2013 at 7:47 AM
Communication 26286
Communication 26285
Putting yourself into uncomfortable situations (and being somewhat mentally prepared for it, mind you) is a step towards overcoming the anxiety. You'll probably still be saying awkward things when talking to people at first, but eventually you'll use the social graces needed in different situations. Like Communication 26284 said, sometimes it's not about you but about other people.
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:.Posted on 5/21/2013 at 6:36 AM
Communication 26285
Communication 26284

Thank you for that. I know that you're right, that going would be the right thing to do. I have a social anxiety issue, and I feel like people are judging me pretty much all the time, so this stuff is just really hard for me, and I automatically start throwing up dumb-ass excuses and barriers when it comes to things that make me uncomfortable. I should work on that. It helps if people can give me reasons rather than just saying "You're going, end." (Which is what my father tends to do...you did a much better job). I think you just convinced me to go.

-Liberation 118695
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:.Posted on 5/20/2013 at 7:29 PM
Communication 26284
Liberation 118695

Sometimes, you just have to do these things. It's not about you; no one is going to be concerned with how you're acting or judge you for not sobbing and sharing stories. This time isn't about you, so they're not going to be placing you and your demeanor as top priority to scrutinize and pontificate upon. You go because you're an adult, and you're representing those who would be there but cannot due to circumstance and location. Yeah, so you didn't know her that well, I get that. But honestly, if that's your reason for being awkward, then you have a lot to learn. You're gonna be in worse situations, ones that will make this one look like fucking paddy cake; I suggest get over the awkwardness and go. Put on your big girl panties, go show up for your family with a brave face (a simple "my family's condolences are with you" will suffice) and then get on with your life; at least you get to move on with little to no sadness.
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:.Posted on 5/20/2013 at 6:23 PM
Communication 26283
Liberation 118683:
the "if you're a guy, it couldn't have been rape" thing is unfortunately pretty pervasive. its the flip side of the horrible trope that women are sexually passive and men are sexually aggressive, the idea that a guy can't be raped because he's supposed to always want sex, any sex at all.
i'm so sorry you don't have anyone to tell right now, and i hope you find some supportive people.
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:.Posted on 5/20/2013 at 12:43 PM
Communication 26282
Liberation about football in Britain: it's the same here I'm the u.s. I don't get it either
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:.Posted on 5/19/2013 at 8:08 PM
Communication 26281
http://veryliberating.com/communication.aspx?id=26279

If I'm an idiot and you're not, I'd rather be me.
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:.Posted on 5/19/2013 at 6:37 PM
Communication 26280
Liberation 118678

It's the same as anywhere, Americans are nuts for American Football, Canadians for Hockey, it's just a thing.
I don't follow soccer so much anymore.

- Prizefighter
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:.Posted on 5/19/2013 at 4:15 PM
Communication 26279
You guys are idiots.
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:.Posted on 5/18/2013 at 6:20 PM
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