Question 2839
Girl with 100 worries asks...
I'm in a new relationship with a really nice guy and he makes me happy. Yet, i can't stop worrying about the future of us possibly not working out. Part of me wants to be single again so I won't cry. I cry when I worry to much. I don't know how to live in the present and just be happy. We've only been dating for 2 weeks. What should I do?

Goda says...
Seriously? I think it's time for you to enter long term therapy and pop some happy pills. 2 weeks in and crying because you worry too much..I think it's time to seek professional medical assistance. Start with your primary care provider and then move on to a shrink. If this is you two weeks in, I'd hate to see what happens down the road.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 2/5/2012 at 9:34 PM
Question 2837
yuckk asks...
What's the best and most polite way to tell somebody they smell?
.. How about to tell somebody their breath stinks?

Goda says...
Hand them some gum or a breath mint and if they decline politely insist that they have one. "You really could use this.."

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:.Posted Anonymously on 2/4/2012 at 8:14 AM
Question 2836
jobplease asks...
i had interviewed for a job position that i really want. the woman i interviewed seemed to like me, it was a second interview (the first being over the phone). she told me it would be a couple of weeks until i hear back because she had a lot to do. it has been 2.5 weeks. should i e-mail her? would that be annoying? or does it show that i really want this position? if so how do i email her without being annoying! ahh im so stressed.

Goda says...
You should email her, something to the extent "thanks for the interview. was a pleasure. looking forward to hearing from you."

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:.Posted Anonymously on 1/30/2012 at 9:44 PM
Question 2835
Birthday wisher asks...
One of my coworkers birthdays is coming up in a few weeks. He says he hates birthdays and thinks it's awkward for people to wish him a happy birthday in person. I know he means it because it fits his personality. So what do I do? Do I not say anything? Do I wish him a happy birthday anyway? Do I ask him after his birthday how his birthday was?

I would feel bad not wishing him a happy birthday, but I feel bad wishing him one when he says it makes him uncomfortable.

Goda says...
Send him a cheeky e card, most birthday haters like some acknowledgement if it isn't a spectacle.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 1/29/2012 at 6:52 PM
Question 2834
perplexed asks...
This year I live with 3 other girls. I share my bedroom with one of them. We pay the same amount of money despite the loss of privacy. The room is equal to two normal sized rooms though thankfully. We are moving next year and the house we are looking at has two equally sized rooms. They are larger than a typical bedroom but still not quite big enough for two people to live comfortably like I do in my current room. If we move there, my roommate and I will pay less and we will get rid of the fourth roommate.

But here's the problem... we don't know how to work out the payment. Each person should be 425 in rent a month if it were split equally. My roommate and I would like to save 25 dollars each to live in a room the same size that the third girl gets to herself. It's very reasonable I think. Especially when one or both of us will need to downgrade to twin beds and/or put our desks in the living room (which is much larger than necessary). If we pay 400 each and the third housemate pays 475 then the difference is 75 dollars and not only the 50 that we were looking for. It makes sense though because we only worked off the base pay. The third housemate is obviously looking to save money so she's saying that we should pay 408 each and she will pay 451. I don't know which to pick or why. I know 16 dollars isn't much but she did just get this whole past year of same rent. Also we agreed that in the summer when we are living with our families, that we would pay the same amount. She'd only need to pay a higher amount for nine months. What do you think?

Goda says...
She gets a room all to herself she can pay the 50 extra, I would if I was given a room all to myself. She's just being frugal. I think you are in the right.

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:.Posted Anonymously on 1/23/2012 at 7:18 PM
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